08Dec, 2012

Day 23: The Ref

  • I Am Second

60-Days-of-Second: Follow along as 15 bloggers journey through 4 readings each from the new book, Live Second: 365 Ways to Make Jesus First. Together they will blog through 60-Days-of-Second. Register to follow at www.iamsecond.com/blog. Get the “Live Second” book in stores December 9.

Day 23 by Micca Campbell

“The Advocate, the Spirit, cannot be silenced or twisted. We must only listen for his guidance and ready our ears for his wisdom.” -Live Second, 31.

“Unless I go away, the Advocate will not come to you; but if
 I go, I will send him to you.” -John 16:7

Have you ever experienced a lack of peace that kept you from moving forward? I have. My husband and I were about to purchase our first home. After viewing several houses, we finally found a perfect fit. Or so we thought.

When closing day came, I couldn’t bring myself to sign the papers. Although it was natural for us to be both excited and nervous about becoming new homeowners, I couldn’t shake the feeling of uneasiness. I asked to speak to my husband alone for a moment and discovered that he had the same sick feeling in his stomach as I had in mine. We decided not to move forward.

This was a wise decision. A few short months later, my husband died from a tragic accident. Had we bought the home, I wouldn’t have been able to pay a house note plus support a new baby and myself on one income. That’s when it dawned on me. Our lack of peace on closing day was the Holy Spirit guiding us toward the right decision.

You and I may not know our future, but God does. Through the Holy Spirit, God directs our steps by the way of peace or lack of it.

Our heavenly helper works in our lives much like a referee does in a basketball game. As long as the players stay within the boundaries of the court, they are free to move about. But when there is trouble on the court or the ball goes out of bounds, the referee blows his whistle. The sound of the whistle stops the game until the referee restores order and puts the ball back into play.

Likewise, you and I have a heavenly Referee—the Holy Spirit. When there is a lack of peace in your life, that’s your signal. The Holy Spirit has blown the whistle and called for a time out to redirect your path.

Sometimes your ball gets kicked out of bounds by unexpected adversity. Other times, you can step out bounds by giving into temptation and sin. In each of these circumstances, the Holy Spirit will blow the whistle to gain your attention. If you and I are smart, we’ll wait on our heavenly Referee to restore our peace and put the ball back into play. That happens as we confess our sin, seek His face, and follow His instructions.

However the Spirit leads, it’s important to note that stepping out of bounds doesn’t mean God will call “game over.” Your heavenly Referee is always working to restore your life and mine.

I’m thankful that my husband and I heeded the warning of the Holy Spirit and didn’t purchase the house. In doing so, my son and I were spared undue stress and pain. I’m learning to live second by waiting for the right path marked by peace.

Check out Micca Campbell’s regular blog at www.miccacampbell.com

Next for the 60-Days-of-Second: Day 24- “Cost of Freedom” by Micca Campbell